am i missing something?

I dont understand how people are taking adnans and tigerlilys relationship people are saying tigerlily is a victim or something. Did we forget that SHE decided to marry a young muslim man half her age or am i tripping. What did she or you expect adnan is not evil to her she seems fine and happy where she is i get adnan is controlling but she decided to marry him the first day, and im not coming at her either i think shes fine where she is and people need to stop acting like this is all on adnan, because adnan could seriously be a lot worse to her.