Am I Overreacting after telling my mom there wasn’t going to be any room in the car for her, so she starts a fight

Okay a bit of backstory, my mom and I haven’t been on speaking terms since I’ve recently gone low contact with her after she called a welfare check on me over a fight she started about my computer dying due to water damage, ever since then she’s been trying to get my partner and I to meet up with her to have a talk about her boundaries and to spend quality time with her before we go back up to college, she told me to choose the day and everything but when I suggested one she didn’t like it cause it would only be for a few hours and to her that’s not enough time for quality time, I also feel like I’m in the wrong and maybe overreacted but she has a way with words to make you feel like she’s the victim and not the other person, so I’d really appreciate input, I also have more screenshots then what you see here, if you want to see them feel free to dm me