AIO Anybody else with a 40 something Male that exclusively takes baths? I mean a bath only no post shower?

I, 40 yo F find my SO , 44 yo M, it to be rather disgusting. Mind you he only bathes once at week most months. He smells and I tell him, but he states he doesn’t like showers. Says he doesn’t like the steam? Doesn’t like being cold after he steps out? To me stupid as hell excuses. It aggravates me probably far greater than it should. I have a huge pet peeve for things that don’t smell good when they should- like a human being that I have to sleep next to. I buy him expensive cologne and it just makes hi smell dirtier. I told him I just don’t like intimacy when I have to hold my breath because his pits smell terrible. He just tells me I am being an inconsiderate A-hole and that I’m demeaning him and making him feel bad about his looks.