They Have BPD… Okay, So What Do You Have?

I saw a psychologist online who said that 51% of partners with BPD (Borderline Personality Disorder) have some kind of mental disorder, which is much higher than the 10% of the general population who are expected to have a disorder. I have no idea what I might have, but if I had to guess, I’d say I’m on the spectrum.

Reading stories here, I notice something a bit different—maybe people are too trusting. I’ve heard stories like, “I told her: no sleepovers at male friends’ places (who you met on Tinder) before you’ve known them at least three months,” and people not seeing that their partner was having sex with other men. Some stories suggest we might be off the charts in agreeableness… but I’m just guessing.

Do you know if you have some kind of disorder?