self awareness is not the strong suite

Dealing with a hopelessly enmeshed pwBPD, this woman constantly complains about the behavior her mom does to her. And yet ... she isnt aware enough to see she does the same damn thing. They could be sisters at this point, that's the level of similarity between the two. Heck sometimes i try to get her to understand other people's point of views, and she can recognize its a problem. But when pointed back to her she doesnt get it. Its as if the entire section dealing with empathy, self reflection, deductive reasoning simply doesnt exist