Why are so many single Catholic gals just so depressed?

As a guy, I'm told "there's so many Catholic women out there! They're dying for a good Catholic man."

When I meet them lately for 1st, 2nd, 3rd dates, they're the saddest, quietest, most low-affect people I've encountered to date.

I do a lot of work with a Catholic therapist and am very keen on mindfulness - I ask questions, show interest, plan fun dates that are more than drinks.

What I've been encountering are women who barely talk about the faith, very downcast, no joy or spontaneity, and almost all are talking about their prior boyfriends early on. I'm assuming most are very wounded from past relationships. Others are just depressed - one told me she was 'over it" that her father was dying and said "he's gonna die soon, it's whatever."

Is this an American Catholic issue? Or are these Catholics dating due to societal pressure instead of actually wanting romance & holy matrimony? Is our faith causing depression because adherence to Catholic morals may cause resentment?