Christian men who have sex

Has anyone else encountered Christian men who profess Christ and are willing to wait and not pressure a woman to have sex, but are very willing if a woman says yes. That’s not normal right? And by normal I mean, that is something that should be addressed? Because I’ve encountered a lot of men like that and they have other good qualities, but it seems like with sex they just don’t care. Is it just lack of spiritual maturity or a faith issue in general?