Vent for the day

I just need to vent to people who get it. DB came home and hour early today, cool. Not cool? He sat and watched me and 6mo play for the last hour of our day. He sat on his phone at the dining table, while me and baby played 5ft way. I find this so fcking weird. Like A: Do you want to be stared at by your boss while you work? and B: Why do you never want to spend that time playing with your kid? I get parents need time for quiet and unwind, MB does this all the time, she will get off early to take the day, and literally just shower and nap and read in her room or office. How is sitting here listening to baby restful? Then DB leaves to take a call 7 minutes before shift ends, comes back to pick baby up 5min late. I find this so disrespectful of my time, you could have let me go an hour early (not necessary or expected, but kind) but instead you made me wait past when my shift ends. Then we are doing handover and I mention baby sounded congested this afternoon. I was sick for the past two weeks pretty brutality, but since I have no sick or PTO I had to work through it. I got it from NK 2yrs after he caught it from visiting family, I talked to MB about this. Wellllll, upon mentioning the congestion DB goes “you don’t even need daycare to get sick!” to baby. I responded with “Yeah, you just get it from family instead!” Maybe I was reading too much into it because of prior feelings towards DB, but it so felt like he was blaming me for the sickness. Which especially pisses me off because they gave it to me, and because of their shitty working conditions I had to work through it and wasn’t fully able to recover. I am so over this man, he boils my blood with the complete lack of respect or regard for me, the person who pretty much raises his children.