I may sound incel but still a genuine question 19M

When you say treat a girl just as a normal human or see her as a normal friend like you see as your other friends But then, you know what it's meant by male-male friendship💀 Abusing each other without limit shamlessly, too much offensive jokes, jokingly slapping butt and touching inappropriately 💀 or jokingly punching or hitting And much more iykyk What about these things?? Like obvious you have treat them differently??