I caught my husband watching porn while having sex with me…

So the other day, we went to a party, it was an all day thing so I was honestly exhausted at the end of the night also had a few drinks so was kind of tipsy, so there we are having sex and I was awake when we started but I just remembering Moans next to my ear that woke me up, he was on top of me with his cellphone next to my head watching porn, I got him off and was obviously upset and started asking him what is wrong with you! He just started apologizing and saying “ well you fell asleep, that doesn’t turn me on.. is this normal? Am I diving to deep into this I was completely shocked and embarrassed.. mind you we have a very active sex life..