Addressing unhelpful or contrarian comments on posts in this thread

I wanted to make this post because I find myself compelled to comment on posts in this sub “I feel you, and read the comments on my posts” because I have gotten SOOOO many helpful, insightful, and supportive replies from people. For that, I am grateful! However, I have received and seen other people receiving comments that seem to question the OP’s sanity, overly criticize the OP and call them cuss words, and/or seem to be someone disagreeing with the OP for the sake of disagreeing (playing devil’s advocate/being a contrarian). One commenter was really riding me hard on a post I made, and I decided to google their username (has since been deleted), and they had frequently posted in some anti-Trans fem-cel discord (????)… so look, I’m not suggesting everyone needs to blindly validate every single OP in here, but just like — do “you” think we all WANT to be posting in here? Do we want to not get along with our family members? The aunts to our children (in my case)? The sisters of our spouses? I think everyone here is typically looking for advice, camaraderie, or to vent into the void. So I find it frustrating when commenters are just like, picking a fight…? Not sure if anyone else has noticed this, but I find it problematic. As a person who feels frequently gaslighted by their SIL, I don’t think we’re all coming here to be gaslighted more…?