haircut for my profile?

i've kept my hair long since 2014 because i don't like (what i feel to be) my masculine asymmetrical profile. i've really struggled with changing it up or cutting it short but my bangs being heavy in my face drives me nuts and there are days where i just wanna pull all of it out, but if i cut it shorter I don't want to look super masculine. i don't know what to do!! curtain bangs maybe??