Tripping and sex with pre-consent?

I’m a fairly attractive woman and I’m single by choice, have been for years and I’m very happy. I’ve been looking for a no-strings fuck-buddy who is willing to get freaky with me when I’m tripping. I’m very responsible, I know my perfect dose, how to be safe and what I want.

Problem is, a guy told me that even with pre-consent it’s still wrong?? I said ok no worries I’ll find someone who’s comfortable with it. He got mad and said it’s even worse if the guy is ok with it?? That I shouldn’t want to do it at all because I can’t consent when high and I’m asking someone to grape me?! He actually made me feel bad and now I’m questioning if I’m in the wrong here? I’ve had sex while tripping before, be it years ago, but I never get so high that I can’t articulate and function. Obviously I need to find someone that I trust, but is it wrong? Am I out of touch and crazy here??