New to Yuri. Where's a good place to start?

Lately I've wanted to only consume media where I see myself represented, so I wanted to start reading yuri. Super bonus points if one of the characters is trans, but I imagine that's fairly uncommon. But there are so many options and I don't know where to start.

I can't give any yuri manga that I've enjoyed in the past, since I haven't read any (I haven't read a ton of manag in general. I've typically been more of an anime girl). But I have always been a suckered for the enemies become lovers trope. I also just love slow burn relationship stories in general, but I want something that grows into a loving relationship. Stories where one person is super sweet and loving and the other is just cold and distance right to the end just make me sad and stressed.

Does anyone have suggestions for a total yuri newbie on where to start? Nothing with fan service please. Ideally, something with adult lesbians. I'm in my mid-30s so love stories about high school girls feels a little creepy

Also open to light novels and anime