Dramatic_Lie

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2025-02-20 07:11:43

AITA for choosing my cat over my boyfriend?

This is the point a lot of people are missing about my original post, maybe I didn't emphasize it enough, but genuinely he's stressed and angry when we're at home with Bonnie or out without her, he was even pissed off on our holiday vacation to visit our families (no bonnie with us).

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You mention therapy to fix things, do you mean therapy for your cat? I don't see how therapy is going to help your boyfriend.... Maybe it will make him more accepting of being constantly attacked by an animal in his own living space.

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I meant couple's therapy to work out how to get through this together. I don't want him to just be okay with Bonnie's behavior, we can help train her together but he doesn't seem to want to work with me to fix it at all. Anything I suggest for him to do to build their relationship or make her more comfortable he seems completely unwilling to do. Also I felt so hurt by him pulling out the mention of engagement to punish me for doing something he didn't like, and I think that's something that needs to be addressed with a professional.

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